Chapter 1—It All Starts with
God (pages 17-21)
Summary
One’s purpose in life is not
about himself. His purpose in life exceeds his personal wants and needs, his
family, his career and anything else relative to his life. One must turn to
God, his Creator, to know his purpose. Why? It is because God created everyone
“on purpose” and “for a purpose.”
The reason many cannot find
their purpose in life is because they start at the wrong entry point by focusing
on their own self-centered concerns, such as their needs, goals, dreams,
life-direction and ambitions. This focus cannot and will not reveal their
purpose in life.
The only way one may know of
his purpose in life is to inquire of the One who created and gave him life. One
must begin with God, his Creator; and since there is an “owner’s manual” penned
by God applicable to everyone on earth, one’s purpose is discernable in this
manual. If one will study the Bible, he will discover that he was “made by
God and for God. Until this is understood, life will never make sense or
bring complete satisfaction to the person. Only in this may one ascertain his
origin, his identity, his importance, his purpose and his destiny. Any other
investigative path leads to emptiness, to depression and to a dead end.
Many attempt to use God for
their own self-conceived purpose, which is a self-centered approach. This is a
reversal of God’s blueprint for one’s life. Many self-help books use this
approach by stipulating various steps one must follow in order to achieve
success in life, to reach one’s personal goals. And by following such steps one
may indeed be successful, but being successful and fulfilling one’s purpose in
life are not the same issue. One may be successful in the sight of man and
according to his standards, while becoming a complete failure to God and to
himself.
There are two options one may
take in attempting to find his purpose in life, one is by speculation,
the common but defective choice; and the other is by revelation, the
uncommon and correct choice. God, the Creator, has not left man to speculate on
such an important matter as his purpose or reason for living. God gave to man
His Holy and Infallible Word, as an “owner’s manual” on all the important
questions of life. To know one’s purpose in life, information that cannot be
obtained from the world’s wisdom (philosophy, psychology, self-motivation
anecdotes), one must turn to eternal truths recorded in the Bible.
The Bible is very clear
regarding the reason and purpose for everyone’s life. In Ephesians 1:11
the following truths regarding every human being is clear, as follow:
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Everyone’s purpose must start with a relationship with Jesus Christ.
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Everyone’s being and purpose was pre-planned and designed by God before the
foundation of the world.
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Everyone is designed to fulfill God’s specific plan (will) for his life.
Without God in one’s life, a
state that may only exist when one becomes united with Jesus Christ through
faith, life will never make sense and fulfillment can never be achieved by him.
Quotes
“It’s not about you.” (pg. 17)
“You were made by God
and for God—and until you understand that, life will never make sense.”
(pg. 18)
“But being successful and
fulfilling your life’s purpose are not at all the same issue!” (pg. 19)
“How, then, do you discover the
purpose you were created for? You have only two options. Your first option is
speculation. . . . Fortunately, there is an alternative to speculation
about the meaning and purpose of life. It’s revelation.” (pgs. 19, 20)
“To discover your purpose in
life you must turn to God’s Word, not the world’s wisdom. You must build your
life on eternal truths, not pop-psychology, success-motivation, or inspirational
stories.” (pg. 20)
Scriptures
For by Him
[Christ] all things were created that are in
heaven and that are on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or
dominions or principalities or powers. All things were created through Him and
for Him. (Colossians 1:16)
In whose
[God’s] hand is the life of every living thing, and the breath of all
mankind? (Job 12:10)
For to be carnally minded
[self-centered] is death, but to be spiritually minded [God-centered]
is life and peace. (Romans 8:6)
For whoever desires to save his life
[man’s way] will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake [God’s
way] will find it. (Matthew 16:25)
But we speak the wisdom of God in a mystery, the
hidden wisdom which God ordained before the ages for our glory.
(1 Corinthians 2:7)
In Him
[Christ] also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined
[determined by God before time] according to the purpose of Him who works all
things according to the counsel of His will [God’s master plan], that we
who first trusted in Christ should be [live for the purpose] to the
praise of His glory. (Ephesians 1:11, 12)
Conclusion/Comments
One’s purpose in life must
begin and end in God. To learn this avenue to fulfillment in life, one must go
to God’s Word, the Bible. Only there will a person come to the understanding
that God has specifically designed and planned him before the creation of time,
that God specifically created him into a unique one-of-a-kind person, and God
has intended him for a specific purpose in life in accordance with God’s master
plan and for which no one else may accomplish. Only when a person comes to this
understanding can he reach and enjoy a fulfilling and completely satisfying
life. To miss this is to end up in depression, with emptiness and
fruitlessness, and in a most agonizing death.
The beginning point must be in
the establishment of a proper relationship with God’s only begotten (most
unique) Son, Jesus Christ. This relationship may only be established when one,
who understands that he is a sinner and in need of salvation, turns in full and
genuine confidence (trust, faith) to Jesus Christ from any other confidence
(trust in any other person, work, establishment or idea), for his personal
salvation. Once he obtains salvation by faith alone in Christ alone, he
then needs only to go to God’s Owner’s Manual (the Bible) for his life in order
to ascertain God’s purpose and plan for his life. And when this is done, he
will discover that God made him a truly unique person for a truly unique and
specific purpose in life, and that by fulfilling this end he will enjoy the
peace and joy which God intends for him and has made available for every living
human being upon earth.